ah~~~how i love weekends...
i can put my books away....
i can sleep as late as i wish....
i can watch as many movies as i want..(although i m watching everyday,haha)
i can do something else i interested with.. (hm...what shall i do this week?)
and...yeah~!i m goin to ski tmr,hahah
came to ukraine so long bt never try skiing...this will be my 1st time, yeah~
long time never update pics in my blog d...hope this time will take some awesome scenery shoots :)
will update shortly...c ya till then~
Friday, February 27, 2009
Monday, February 23, 2009
相遇不是用來生氣的
前日往回家的公車上，
一對上班族男女吸引了我的目光，
而他們的一段對話，更讓人難忘。
每天搭乘公車上下班，來回通勤時間約莫近二小時，
有時人少，可坐在位置上欣賞窗外的風景；
人多時，也只能慢慢地擠回家，
但這時，身邊乘客的對話總會不時地傳到耳邊。
前日往回家的公車上，轉程靠站時，乘客頓時多了起來。
一對上班族男女恰巧在我身邊，吸引了我的目光。
可能因為人多，男的不時地將手臂圍住女的，
並輕聲的問「累不累？」
「待會想吃些什麼？」
只見女的不耐煩地回答
「我已經夠煩了，吃什麼都還不先決定，每次都要問我。」
男的一臉無辜的低下頭，而後說了令我印象深刻的話。
「讓妳決定是因為希望能夠陪妳吃妳喜歡的東西，
然後看到妳滿足的笑容，
把今天工作的不愉快暫時忘掉。
我的能力不足，
妳工作上所受的委屈我沒法幫妳，
我所能做的也只有這樣。」
女的聽了後，滿懷愧疚的說聲對不起。
男的這才似乎重燃信心般說：
「沒關係，只要你開心就好。」
而後親吻了女的頭髮。
下車前再回頭看看這對情侶，
男的依舊保護著心愛的人。
這樣的情景，
讓我覺得自己今天同樣在工作上有些許不愉快，
如果沒有聽到這一段對話，回家後的我，
可能也是一副全世界都對不起我的臭臉面對心愛的人，
只在乎自己的委屈，
卻忽視對方的感受，
不自覺地傷害最親密的人。
所以在踏進家門時，我問自己，
難道我要像公車上那位女孩一樣忍心
將自己的不滿委屈帶給身旁的人嗎？
不，我想我現在應該做的是...
當你和朋友..家人爭執時…
要記得你們的相遇…
不是用來生氣的喔…
但...人非聖賢...
誰能不生氣呢…
看了這篇文章以後…
記得.....下次要生氣時…
就別生太久…
免得傷心、傷肝、傷腎又傷腸胃…
一對上班族男女吸引了我的目光，
而他們的一段對話，更讓人難忘。
每天搭乘公車上下班，來回通勤時間約莫近二小時，
有時人少，可坐在位置上欣賞窗外的風景；
人多時，也只能慢慢地擠回家，
但這時，身邊乘客的對話總會不時地傳到耳邊。
前日往回家的公車上，轉程靠站時，乘客頓時多了起來。
一對上班族男女恰巧在我身邊，吸引了我的目光。
可能因為人多，男的不時地將手臂圍住女的，
並輕聲的問「累不累？」
「待會想吃些什麼？」
只見女的不耐煩地回答
「我已經夠煩了，吃什麼都還不先決定，每次都要問我。」
男的一臉無辜的低下頭，而後說了令我印象深刻的話。
「讓妳決定是因為希望能夠陪妳吃妳喜歡的東西，
然後看到妳滿足的笑容，
把今天工作的不愉快暫時忘掉。
我的能力不足，
妳工作上所受的委屈我沒法幫妳，
我所能做的也只有這樣。」
女的聽了後，滿懷愧疚的說聲對不起。
男的這才似乎重燃信心般說：
「沒關係，只要你開心就好。」
而後親吻了女的頭髮。
下車前再回頭看看這對情侶，
男的依舊保護著心愛的人。
這樣的情景，
讓我覺得自己今天同樣在工作上有些許不愉快，
如果沒有聽到這一段對話，回家後的我，
可能也是一副全世界都對不起我的臭臉面對心愛的人，
只在乎自己的委屈，
卻忽視對方的感受，
不自覺地傷害最親密的人。
所以在踏進家門時，我問自己，
難道我要像公車上那位女孩一樣忍心
將自己的不滿委屈帶給身旁的人嗎？
不，我想我現在應該做的是...
別再把工作上的情緒發洩在心愛的人身上，
破壞了最親密的關係，
並且主動給自己一個微笑。
相遇，不是用來生氣的！說得真好！
當自己快抓不住情緒時，想想這句話，
應該會讓煩忙的生活，加些微笑的因子吧！
同樣地，在日常生活中，我們牽掛得太多，
我們太在意得失，所以我們的情緒起伏，
我們不快樂。在生氣之際，我們如能多想想︰
「我不是為了生氣而工作的。」
「我不是為了生氣而教書的。」
「我不是為了生氣而交朋友的。」
「我不是為了生氣而作夫妻的。」
「我不是為了生氣而生兒育女的。」
那麼我們會為我們煩惱的心情闢出另一番安詳
當你和朋友..家人爭執時…
要記得你們的相遇…
不是用來生氣的喔…
但...人非聖賢...
誰能不生氣呢…
看了這篇文章以後…
記得.....下次要生氣時…
就別生太久…
免得傷心、傷肝、傷腎又傷腸胃…
Thursday, February 19, 2009
recent updates
just finished my hematology cycle...final day with patient examination was rather easier then what i thought. it's not a good news for me.
WHY? i hope to get something more challenging tasks...which will point out my mistakes. it's always better to make the mistake(of course not intentionally) while u r still forgivable to make it...
tmr starting new cycle, epidemiology....gonna have a weirdo as my teacher,hope she won't fry and squeeze me up alive :D
regarding my flight back to malaysia...i was wondering to take a safe journey with a more expensive ticket(simferopol-- istanbul -- singapore), or another cheaper but rather risky and troublesom option (simferopol -- kiev -- london -- dubai-- KL). i m looking forward to pay london a visit during my time in europe, and this will be a good chance for me...but i still wish to go back msia asap.....the 2nd option is so temptating which i feel like not gonna miss it. both option will cause a severe hemorrhage for my wallet, unless i won't hang around while transitting, which i will feel sorry to myself if i don't do it...neh neh~
some personal issues troubling me recently.....ops, i just did say it's troubling me. yeah~ i hate think kind of feelings very much. i guess i had my worst ever week, and i was half concious, even lifeless apathic person for that duration. if i'm back to what i was last time, i would have throw everything out and clear my mind, calm my soul. but this time i gonna face it like a man. running away won't do any good to me, so do to the other party. no matter how's the outcome, face it like a man.
a newcomer to my group...she did a credit transfer from a medical university in Luganks, ukraine. hope she can cope well with life in simferopol. :)
WHY? i hope to get something more challenging tasks...which will point out my mistakes. it's always better to make the mistake(of course not intentionally) while u r still forgivable to make it...
tmr starting new cycle, epidemiology....gonna have a weirdo as my teacher,hope she won't fry and squeeze me up alive :D
regarding my flight back to malaysia...i was wondering to take a safe journey with a more expensive ticket(simferopol-- istanbul -- singapore), or another cheaper but rather risky and troublesom option (simferopol -- kiev -- london -- dubai-- KL). i m looking forward to pay london a visit during my time in europe, and this will be a good chance for me...but i still wish to go back msia asap.....the 2nd option is so temptating which i feel like not gonna miss it. both option will cause a severe hemorrhage for my wallet, unless i won't hang around while transitting, which i will feel sorry to myself if i don't do it...neh neh~
some personal issues troubling me recently.....ops, i just did say it's troubling me. yeah~ i hate think kind of feelings very much. i guess i had my worst ever week, and i was half concious, even lifeless apathic person for that duration. if i'm back to what i was last time, i would have throw everything out and clear my mind, calm my soul. but this time i gonna face it like a man. running away won't do any good to me, so do to the other party. no matter how's the outcome, face it like a man.
a newcomer to my group...she did a credit transfer from a medical university in Luganks, ukraine. hope she can cope well with life in simferopol. :)
Friday, February 13, 2009
happy valentines' day~ :)
To My Friends Who Are...........SINGLE
Love is like a butterfly. The more you chase it, the more it eludes you. But if you just let it fly, it will come to you when you least expect it. Love can make you happy but often it hurts, but love's only special when you give it to someone who is really worth it. So take your time and choose the best.
To My Friends Who Are............NOT SO SINGLE
Love isn't about becoming somebody else's 'perfect person.' It's about finding someone who helps you become the best person you can be.
To My Friends Who Are............PLAYBOY/GIRL TYPE
Never say 'I love you' if you don't care. Never talk about feelings if theyaren't there. Never touch a life if you mean to break a heart. Never look in the eye when all you do is lie. The cruelest thing a guy can do to a girl is to let her fall in love when he doesn't intend to catch her fall and it works both ways...
To My Friends Who Are............MARRIED
Love is not about 'it's your fault', but 'I'm sorry.' Not 'where are you', but 'I'm right here.' Not 'how could you', but 'I understand.' Not 'I wish you were', but 'I'm thankful you are.'
To My Friends Who Are............ENGAGED
The true measure of compatibility is not the years spent together but how good you are for each other.
To My Friends Who Are............HEARTBROKEN
Heartbreaks last as long as you want and cut as deep as you allow them to go. The challenge is not how to survive heartbreaks but to learn from them.
To My Friends Who Are............NAIVE
How to be in love: Fall but don't stumble, be consistent but not too persistent, share and never be unfair, understand and try not to demand, and get hurt but never keep the pain.
To My Friends Who Are............POSSESSIVE
It breaks your heart to see the one you love happy with someone else but
it's more painful to know that the one you love is unhappy with you.
To My Friends Who Are............AFRAID TO CONFESS
Love hurts when you break up with someone. It hurts even more when someone breaks up with you. But love hurts the most when the person you love has no idea how you feel.
To My Friends Who Are............STILL HOLDING ON
A sad thing about life is when you meet someone and fall in love, only to
find out in the end that it was never meant to be and that you have wasted years on someone who wasn't worth it. If he isn't worth it now he's not
'going to be worth it a year or 10 years from now Let go.....
TO ALL MY FRIENDS.......
My wish for you is a man/women whose love is honest, strong, mature,
never-changing, uplifting, protective, encouraging, rewarding and unselfish.
Saturday, February 7, 2009
welcome~
good news in Ox year,haha
welcome new member to my big family, little macho OX
i got a niece now, just upgraded become uncle...sound so old(hm..young and energetic big bro sound better to me :P)
my parents have just upgraded become grandparents;
and of course a BIG congratulation to my big bro n da shao(sister in-law)who just become parents,haha
gambateh in parenting lo...
if i m free i will help u taking care of ur child once awhile, with double charge :P
welcome new member to my big family, little macho OX
i got a niece now, just upgraded become uncle...sound so old(hm..young and energetic big bro sound better to me :P)
my parents have just upgraded become grandparents;
and of course a BIG congratulation to my big bro n da shao(sister in-law)who just become parents,haha
gambateh in parenting lo...
if i m free i will help u taking care of ur child once awhile, with double charge :P
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