戴愛玲-對的人

爱情之道

爱的感觉，总是在一开始觉得很甜蜜，

总觉得多一个人陪、多一个人帮你分担，

你终於不再孤单了，至少有一个人想著你、恋著你，

不论做什么事情，

只要能一起，就是好的，

但是慢慢的，随著彼此的认识愈深，

你开始发现了对方的缺点，

於是问题一个接著一个发生，

你开始烦、累，甚至想要逃避，

有人说爱情就像在捡石头，

总想捡到一个适合自己的，

但是你又如何知道什么时候能够捡到呢？

*她适合你，那你又适合她吗?

其实，爱情就像磨石子一样，

或许刚捡到的时候，你不是那么的满意，

但是记住人是有弹性的，

很多事情是可以改变的，

只要你有心、有勇气，

与其到处去捡未知的石头，

还不如好好的将自己已经拥有的石头磨亮磨，你开始磨ma？

很多人以为是因为感情淡了，

所以人才会变得懒惰。

错！

其实是人先被惰性征服，

所以感情才会变淡的。

*在某个聚餐的场合, 有人提议多吃点虾子对身体好，

这时候有个中年男人忽然说「十年前，当我老婆还是我女朋友的时候，她说要吃十只虾，我就剥二十只给她！

现在，如果她要我帮她剥虾壳，开玩笑！我连帮她脱衣服都没兴趣了，还剥虾壳咧！

*听到了吗？明白了吗？

难怪越来越多人只想要谈一辈子的恋爱，却迟迟不肯走入婚姻。

因为，婚姻容易让人变得懒惰。

如果每个人都

懒得讲话、

懒得倾听、

懒得制造惊喜、

懒得温柔体贴，

那么夫妻或是情人之间，

又怎么会不渐行渐远渐无声呢？

所以请记住：

有活力的爱情，

是需要适度殷勤灌溉的，

谈恋爱，更是不可以偷懒的喔！

*有一对情侣，相约下班後去用餐、逛街，可是女孩因为公司会议而延误了， 当她冒著雨赶到的时候已经迟到了30多分钟， 他的男朋友很不高兴的说：你每次都这样，现在我甚么心情也没了， 我以後再也不会等你了！ 刹那间，女孩终於决堤崩溃了， 她心里在想：或许，他们再也没有未来了

*同样的在同一个地点，另一对情侣也面临同样的处境； 女孩赶到的时候也迟到了半个钟头，他的男朋友说：我想你一定忙坏了吧！接著他为女孩拭去脸上的雨水，并且脱去外套盖在女孩身上， 此刻，女孩流泪了, 但是流过她脸颊的泪却是温馨的。你体会到了吗？

*其实爱、恨往往只是在我们的一念之间！

爱不仅要懂得宽容更要及时， 很多事可能只是在於你心境的转变罢了！

懂了吗？

当有个人爱上你，而你也觉得他不错。

那并不代表你会选择他。

*我们总说：我要找一个你很爱很爱的人，才会谈恋爱。

但是当对方问你，怎样才算是很爱很爱的时候，

你可能无法回答他，因为你自己也不知道。

*没错，我们总是以为，我们会找到一个自己很爱很爱的人。

可是後来，当我们猛然回首，我们才会发觉自己曾经多么天真。

假如从来没有开始，你怎么知道自己会不会很爱很爱那个人呢？

其实，很爱很爱的感觉，是要在一起经历了许多事情之後才会发现的。

或许每个人都希望能够找到自己心目中百分之百的伴侣，

但是你有没有想过在你身边会不会早已经有人默默对你付出很久了，只是你没发觉而已呢？

所以，还是仔细看看身边的人吧！
他或许已经等你很久喽！

*当你爱一个人的时候，爱到八分绝对刚刚好。

所有的期待和希望都只有七八分；剩下两三分用来爱自己。

如果你还继续爱得更多，很可能会给对方沉重的压力，让彼此喘不过气来， 完全丧失了爱情的乐趣。

*所以请记住，

喝酒不要超过六分醉，

吃饭不要超过七分饱，

爱一个人不要超过八分

*那天朋友问我：到底该怎么做才算是爱一个人呢？

我笑著跟他说：其实每个人的爱情观都不一样，说对了叫开导，但就怕说错反倒变成误导。那就糟糕了！

*如果你也正在为爱迷惘，或许下面这段话可以给你一些启示：

爱一个人，要了解，也要开解；

要道歉，也要道谢；

要认错，也要改错；

要体贴，也要体谅；

是接受，而不是忍受；

是宽容，而不是纵容；

是支持，而不是支配；

是慰问，而不是质问；

是倾诉，而不是控诉；

是难忘，而不是遗忘；

是彼此交流，而不是凡事交代；

是为对方默默祈求，

而不是向对方诸多要求；

可以浪漫，但不要浪费；

可以随时牵手，但不要随便分手。

desert safari - dubai!

ha...finally i m free to upload some pic of mine during my transit in dubai~

i din walk around in dubai city center..it was tooooo hot for me, and i rather stay indoor :P
but i went to desert safari.hoooo~~it was fun!! it's like rollercoaster in middle of desert,hahaha
until i felt nausea at the end of journey...OMG!

hehe, 1st time so close to u..Mr. Camel
4WD in action..can u see my shadow?

lost in middle of desert...it's like hell~sunset in desert..i like this pic:)just posing...after one tiring day in desert safari..i m exhausted :S
having lunch...i forget what i had..but it's huge in amount,haha

hm..i din really unmask the unique of dubai..but i did enjoy my stay in dubai, especially the desert safari...a must try if u ever come to dubai!

YES~~back online for 2nd time!!

i hope this is the final time i post with this title...really get fed-up with the service here.
i get back my internet connection..all by my own effort.haha
the physical address really mess me up....if i know how to fix it i should have online 2 days earlier..
but nvm...everything settle now, currently i m happy with the connection speed.
jz pray hard it wont unplug anytime...amen~

what the hack??

i should have brought the new comp with wifi or wireless connection....
aiks......i m so suffer here with slower than slow internet speed..i paid so much money for nothing, damn it!
i was lure by it's advertisement of offering 1 mb broadband speed..but end up with it's speed slower than dail-up modem....
no money refunded...what lousy excuse given was something gone wrong with the cable planted.
almost one week passed with lousy speed.....wordless, motionless, voiceless... :(

lousy internet service...

was happy when i just get back my internet service in ukraine few days ago....but it screwed up later on one day after i get it back, with snail speed and transfer rate nearly to ZERO....and it continues until now, which seems gonna be endless
i cant sign in msn, even i can sign in, i cant chat with my friends
i cant load or open any pages, even i can load, it will never be fully loaded
i cant do anything without internet!!!! SHIT!!!!

how come i need to pay over 240+ griven (around RM200+) for nothing?? how come i paid so much money yet i still cant get what i should have?how come i paid so much money to make myself angry??

U SUCKS REAL WEB!!! IF U DON'T PROVIDE BETTER SERVICES I WILL MAKE SURE U REFUND MY MONEY BACK!!!!!

yes~~back online!

after few days of waiting waiting and waiting, here comes the internet service, ha~ i m finally back online.
Life in ukraine without internet is the most torturing period, WHY?? because it's the best way to stay contact with the world outside. Sound like i m lost in a 3rd world country, YES, indeed i m 'lost', but i have survived here for 4 years.

hey cutie!

met this little 4 years old cutie on my way to KL...she just sooooo cute that i cant resist to take down her photo,of course i did ask for permission from her parent, which just sit beside her.
initially she just a shy girl who sat in front of me..starring at me.OPPPs~am i that handsome to attract such little cutie??hahahahha~

then i start playing with her..start with a smile, then follow by some weird facial expression. she is such an active girl..u see what's her respond

neh...dun kiss me pls :P

then she offer me some snacks,wahahaha~she keep on asking me to take it and saying it's delicious,but i rejected her. hope i didn't hurt your little heart.my mum always teach me not to simply accept something from stranger, especially food :P
then u see what's her reaction...

oh,she gonna punch me!!

no la, she didn't do so, it's just a shooting that seems like she is angry, yet she still looked so cute,haha~
thankyou for making my 45 minutes journey to KL so joyful,haha
it's fun to have u there :D

a BIG DAY for me

2 days ago it was my 2nd sister's BIG DAY, her wedding day..she was so pretty, charming ,happy and so on(i lazy to describe so much,hehe)
today is my BIG DAY...yes!!!at last this day have arrived
why it's a big day?because today will be another chapter of my life, no matter how it ends....i will be a different me by tomorrow.
p/s:2 more days to stay in msia before going back to ukraine...aih~~~